Do You Need a Dating Buddy?

Figuring out how and who to date isn't always easy. And it's tricky to tell if you should give this new one a chance, or move on to who's next. You don't have to do this alone.

Together, we can...


Learning what you require and desire will help you sort through your choices to find a good match for you. (It takes more than hot chemistry.)


Learn techniques that will have you setting boundaries like a badass: kindly, quickly, and with grace.


Get clarity, answers, and a solid game plan that helps you move through negative or unwanted experiences.


Heal and clear out past "ouch" moments and relationship pain so you can move on to being a shiny, new, happy person.


Solve sex-related concerns so you can be free and expressive in bed.


Roleplay and work through an upcoming important conversation–like how to tell a date that you need to call things off or how to share critical information with a new partner.

Succeed at dating and find love with a coaching package.

3 Hours – $495

See what women have to say

"Wendy, thank you for your guidance. I have met and fallen for the love of my life. I'm not sure I would have put myself out there and kept on dating to get to him without your words."

- Amy M. – Chico, California (Married 2018)

"Two of my favorite people just asked me to be a part of their family! Wendy, thank you for your wonderful work which was so influential in making this happen!."

- McKerrin K. – Los Angeles, CA (Married 2016)

“Finally! An adorable man with values I respect. Added bonus, I can be myself around him. Wendy, thank you for helping me get to this man."

- Caren F. – Traverse City, MI (Married 2019)

Special Note: Online Sorting

If you need dating coaching, I'm here for you!

We can get you dating successfully so you can find your person faster and with less fuss.

Please note that there's something I don't do: I don't sift through your online options and tell you whom to swipe on–that part's not a team sport for my services.

If you are looking for a coach who will scroll through your OKC account with you, I enthusiastically recommend Carol Roderick. Email her at Carol is amazing and will take great care of you for that.

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Hi there, Gorgeous!

How're you doing?

Could you use a little support?

If you feel your single, dating, and/or sex life could use some workshopping, I'm here for you. I can also help you sort through what you need and want out of any relationship, be it romantic, sexual, or otherwise. I can teach you how to ask for–and get–these things, as well as how to set healthy boundaries gently and effectively with anyone in your life when it comes to the things you don't want around.


I didn't forget you, polyam girl!

If you're preferred style of relationship is open or polyam, I've got you. I'm an expert at navigating polyamorous and "monogamish" relationship structures as well as monogamous ones.

I've helped over 70,000 people on their journey to love.

Find the one who loves and adores you just as you are.

What are you waiting for?