Like getting your colors done, know what will work for you and what's never going to look good on you–in advance.
SEE LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH
You need things to be extraordinary. Find out exactly what they are and what to look for in a mate.
PREVENT PAINFUL MOMENTS
Getting attached to the wrong person can be painful and messy to untangle. You'll learn where the line is, and how to step away before it's too late.
SPEAK LIKES AND DISLIKES
Learn to recognize your relationship preferences and share them with your dates for discovering compatability.
SWIPE LEFT GUILT-FREE
Some of your must-haves might have you feeling a little guilty, or shallow. You get to say what you need–no judgment.
MEET YOUR LOVE
You will stop wasting time on those who are not a good fit for your life and attract dates who might be just right for you.
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"Wendy's sorting method is genius!
I thought I was shallow, and she'd make me give up what I wanted. But I can now see my top six are my top six and it doesn't matter what other people think. (And a few of them were unexpected, my list changed.) Do it!"
LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA
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"Thank you sooooo much, Wendy!
I'm swiping left on so many guys now. I've stopped wasting my time on as you say, not a good fit."
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"I got this thing because I needed help sorting. I think my picker is off. The sorting part was invaluable.
But O.M.G! The 7 blocks! At first, I was like, 'this isn't me, I'm grown.' But as I kept listening, I got it. I could see how some of those beliefs were buried in me.
Thank you for bringing more consciousness to my dating process. I can't wait to see what happens now."
“I took this course to figure out what I was looking for, and I got that in spades! But I also got to see all the ways I've been lying to myself about how relationships are supposed to happen. Thank you, Wendy!"
LATASHA O. | ATLANTA, GEORGIA
* I provide audios and/or videos to offer options for different learning styles. Listen or watch, pick the choice that works best for you!
“At 35, I found myself divorced, single, and without the first clue on how to date. I figured I'd go on four or five dates, meet my new husband, and that would be that.
Boy, was I wrong.
I went on 121 first dates before my guy came along.
<– This is me and Mr. 121. We're adorable, right?
That's right. 121 different men. I don't want that for you! I want you to be able to sort for your love much faster!
One of the most important lessons I learned on 121 first dates is...
Date within your tribe. Tribe has nothing to do with race. Your tribe are your people–the ones that see you and accept you as you are. You have a natural and easy affinity with them because they are like you... and you are like them.
You'll learn how to spot your tribe. There's nothing like finding the right person who can see you, and get behind you and say, "I've got you—now go be whoever you want to be in this world."
If that's your desire, it's totally possible for you.
WENDY NEWMAN | WORKSHOP LEADER
It's time you find the one who loves and adores you just as you are.
This workshop can help get you there.